Genesis ::: A Study on Beginnings
 
XXVIII. A wife is found for Abraham's son, Isaac.

Genesis 24:1-4
And Abraham was old, and well stricken in age: and the LORD had blessed Abraham in all things. 2And Abraham said unto his eldest servant of his house, that ruled over all that he had, Put, I pray thee, thy hand under my thigh: 3And I will make thee swear by the LORD, the God of heaven, and the God of the earth, that thou shalt not take a wife unto my son of the daughters of the Canaanites, among whom I dwell: 4But thou shalt go unto my country, and to my kindred, and take a wife unto my son Isaac. (KJV)

  1. Abraham lives a long and full life, being blessed by Jehovah God.
  1. The relationship of ages in this household:
  1. Abraham was 100 years of age when Isaac was born. (Gen. 21:5)
         
  2. Abraham was 137 years of age when Sarah, his wife, died.
         
  3. Abraham was 140 years of age when Isaac took Rebekah to wife.
         
  4. Abraham was 160 years of age when he became grandfather to twin boys born to Isaac & Rebekah. They were named, Esau & Jacob.
         
  5. Abraham lived 15 years longer after the twins were born. (Died @ 175 years).
         
  6. Isaac was 40 years of age when he took Rebekah to wife.
         
  7. Isaac was 60 years of age when the twins were born, after 20 years of barrenness.
         
  8. Isaac was 75 years of age when he buried his father, Abraham. Both sons, Isaac & Ishmael, had part in the burial of their father.
         
  9. Abraham's body was buried alongside Sarah's in the cave of Machpelah.

Genesis 25:7-10
And these are the days of the years of Abraham's life which he lived, an hundred threescore and fifteen years. 8Then Abraham gave up the ghost, and died in a good old age, an old man, and full of years; and was gathered to his people. 9And his sons Isaac and Ishmael buried him in the cave of Machpelah, in the field of Ephron the son of Zohar the Hittite, which is before Mamre; 10The field which Abraham purchased of the sons of Heth: there was Abraham buried, and Sarah his wife. (KJV)

  1. Isaac was the same age when he buried his father (75) as his father was when The LORD sent him forth from the Ur of the Chaldees.
         
  2. Abraham married Keturah after Sarah died & she bore him six sons. (Gen.25:1-4) He lived 38 years longer than Sarah. It was during these years that he married & was able to beget these six sons. However, only Isaac received the inheritance.
  1. Abraham used the most trusted of his servants to seek out a wife for Isaac.
         
  2. Abraham was determined that his son, Isaac, would not take a wife from among the daughters of the Canaanites, making his servant swear by The LORD that this would not happen. He sent him to his own kindred, his brother's family. (Nahor)
         
  3. Abraham was depending upon The LORD to lead his servant to this virgin woman.

Genesis 24:5-9
And the servant said unto him, Peradventure the woman will not be willing to follow me unto this land: must I needs bring thy son again unto the land from whence thou camest? 6And Abraham said unto him, Beware thou that thou bring not my son thither again. 7The LORD God of heaven, which took me from my father's house, and from the land of my kindred, and which spake unto me, and that sware unto me, saying, Unto thy seed will I give this land; he shall send his angel before thee, and thou shalt take a wife unto my son from thence. 8And if the woman will not be willing to follow thee, then thou shalt be clear from this my oath: only bring not my son thither again. 9And the servant put his hand under the thigh of Abraham his master, and sware to him concerning that matter. (KJV)

  1. The prayer of Abraham's servant for The LORD'S leadership.

Genesis 24:12-14
And he said, O LORD God of my master Abraham, I pray thee, send me good speed this day, and shew kindness unto my master Abraham. 13Behold, I stand here by the well of water; and the daughters of the men of the city come out to draw water: 14And let it come to pass, that the damsel to whom I shall say, Let down thy pitcher, I pray thee, that I may drink; and she shall say, Drink, and I will give thy camels drink also: let the same be she that thou hast appointed for thy servant Isaac; and thereby shall I know that thou hast shewed kindness unto my master. (KJV)

  1. The LORD'S answer to the servant's prayer, to his amazement!

Genesis 24:15-28
And it came to pass, before he had done speaking, that, behold, Rebekah came out, who was born to Bethuel, son of Milcah, the wife of Nahor, Abraham's brother, with her pitcher upon her shoulder. 16And the damsel was very fair to look upon, a virgin, neither had any man known her: and she went down to the well, and filled her pitcher, and came up. 17And the servant ran to meet her, and said, Let me, I pray thee, drink a little water of thy pitcher. 18And she said, Drink, my lord: and she hasted, and let down her pitcher upon her hand, and gave him drink. 19And when she had done giving him drink, she said, I will draw water for thy camels also, until they have done drinking. 20And she hasted, and emptied her pitcher into the trough, and ran again unto the well to draw water, and drew for all his camels. 21And the man wondering at her held his peace, to wit whether the LORD had made his journey prosperous or not. 22And it came to pass, as the camels had done drinking, that the man took a golden earring of half a shekel weight, and two bracelets for her hands of ten shekels weight of gold; 23And said, Whose daughter art thou? tell me, I pray thee: is there room in thy father's house for us to lodge in? 24And she said unto him, I am the daughter of Bethuel the son of Milcah, which she bare unto Nahor. 25She said moreover unto him, We have both straw and provender enough, and room to lodge in. 26And the man bowed down his head, and worshipped the LORD. 27And he said, Blessed be the LORD God of my master Abraham, who hath not left destitute my master of his mercy and his truth: I being in the way, the LORD led me to the house of my master's brethren. 28And the damsel ran, and told them of her mother's house these things.

Rebekah = Ribqah {Rib-kaw'}
= "ensnarer," found 30 times. Probably from an unused root meaning "to clog by tying up the fetlock." (a fetlock is the tufted cushion-like projection on the back side of the leg above the hoof of the horse and similar animals; the tuft of hair or the joint at this point). Remember that Rebekah was caring for the camels.

wondering = sha'ah {shaw-aw'}
= this verb occurs only here!
It is in the Hithpael (= to gaze) stem = (himself ) & the Participle mood = (an unbroken action in its continuity); From a root through the idea of whirling to giddiness;

very fair = m@'od {mah-ode'}
= exceedingly; greatly; in abundance(as to degree); & towb {tobe} = beautiful, pleasant(agreeable to the senses), valuable in estimation.

to look upon = mar'eh {mar-eh'}
=appearance; sight; vision; well favored.

virgin = b@thuwlah {beth-oo-law'}
= virgin; maid; maiden; imp. = a young (marriageable) maiden; In Isaiah 7:14:
Therefore the Lord himself shall give you a sign; Behold, a virgin shall conceive, and bear a son, and shall call his name Immanuel.

virgin = 'almah {al-maw'}
= virgin; maid. (Isa. 7:14) (Hebrew)

virgin (Greek) = parthenos: (Mat. 1:23)
= a quotation of Isa. 7:14 in Greek.

virgin = parthenos {par-then'-os}
= virgin; a woman who has never had sexual intercourse with a man; (or) = a man who has never had intercourse with women. The LXX (Greek translation of the Hebrew O.T.) translates the Hebrew word, 'almah {al-maw'} in Isa. 7:14, to read "parthenos" in Matthew 1:22-23 which is a fulfilled prophecy of Isa. 7:14. There is NO instance where it can be proved that this Hebrew word designates a young woman who is not a virgin. (= pure; untouched)
In the Sumerian or Akkadian language, this condition of a woman is expressed in these terms = "who is not deflowered." In Gen. 24:16, The Holy Spirit makes clear what the meaning of this Hebrew word, "b@thuwlah" is when He says, "a virgin, neither had any man known her;"

  1. Rebekah has a brother named, Laban, who will later be a part of the origin of the people of Israel.

Genesis 24:29-31
And Rebekah had a brother, and his name was Laban: and Laban ran out unto the man, unto the well. 30And it came to pass, when he saw the earring and bracelets upon his sister's hands, and when he heard the words of Rebekah his sister, saying, Thus spake the man unto me; that he came unto the man; and, behold, he stood by the camels at the well. 31And he said, Come in, thou blessed of the LORD; wherefore standest thou without? for I have prepared the house, and room for the camels. (KJV)

  1. Rebekah & Laban are the children of Bethuel who was the son of Abraham's brother, Nahor. Therefore, they were the close kindred of Abraham.
         
  2. Laban = Laban {Law-bawn'}
    = "white."
  1. Abraham's servant reiterates his mission to the household of Bethuel & Laban. He is ready for the answer about Rebekah becoming the wife of Isaac.

Genesis 24:49
And now if ye will deal kindly and truly with my master, tell me: and if not, tell me; that I may turn to the right hand, or to the left. (KJV)

Genesis 24:50-51
Then Laban and Bethuel answered and said, The thing proceedeth from the LORD: we cannot speak unto thee bad or good. 51Behold, Rebekah is before thee, take her, and go, and let her be thy master's son's wife, as the LORD hath spoken. (KJV)

  1. Rebekah becomes the wife of Isaac, neither of whom have seen each other.
  1. Abraham's servant worships Jehovah for His answered prayer, Each of us should do the same as The LORD answers our prayers! Remember the ten leper being healed. Only one returned to give thanks. (Luke 17:11-19)
         
  2. Precious gifts were given to Rebekah, her mother, and brother.
         
  3. After a night of celebration & rest, Abraham's servant is ready to return to his master having fulfilled his oath & promise to Abraham.

Genesis 24:52-54
And it came to pass, that, when Abraham's servant heard their words, he worshiped the LORD, bowing himself to the earth. 53And the servant brought forth jewels of silver, and jewels of gold, and raiment, and gave them to Rebekah: he gave also to her brother and to her mother precious things.
54And they did eat and drink, he and the men that were with him, and tarried all night; and they rose up in the morning, and he said, Send me away unto my master. (KJV)

  1. Laban does not want his sister to go immediately. He requests a long waiting time.

Genesis 24:55
And her brother and her mother said, Let the damsel abide with us a few days, at the least ten; after that she shall go. (KJV)

  1. abide = yashab {yaw-shab'}
    = remain, dwell; to have one's abode. Sit down.
    In Qal stem (a simple or casual action of the root in the active voice).
    In the Imperfect mood (expresses an action, process, or condition which adds color & movement to it).
         
  2. a few = added by the translators, not in the Hebrew text.
         
  3. at least = 'ow {o}
    = a short form of 'avvah {av-vaw'}
    = desire or pleasure & means "rather," implying that the latter choice is preferred.
         
  4. ten = 'asowr {aw-sore'}
    = from 'eser {eh'-ser}
    = ten & ten with other numbers. It is defined here as a full year or ten months. It probably reads to let his Rebekah continue to dwell there at home for an extended period of time indicated by the use of "ten" (10 days, yea, ten months).
         
  5. The servant is not willing to these terms; he is ready to get his responsibility done.

Genesis 24:56
And he said unto them, Hinder me not, seeing the LORD hath prospered my way; send me away that I may go to my master. (KJV)

  1. Rebekah makes the final decision (with The LORD'S help); She is blessed.

Genesis 24:57-60
And they said, We will call the damsel, and enquire at her mouth. 58And they called Rebekah, and said unto her, Wilt thou go with this man? And she said, I will go. 59And they sent away Rebekah their sister, and her nurse, and Abraham's servant, and his men. 60And they blessed Rebekah, and said unto her, Thou art our sister, be thou the mother of thousands of millions, and let thy seed possess the gate of those which hate them. (KJV)

  1. Isaac & Rebekah become husband and wife.

Genesis 24:61-67
And Rebekah arose, and her damsels, and they rode upon the camels, and followed the man: and the servant took Rebekah, and went his way.
62And Isaac came from the way of the well Lahairoi; for he dwelt in the south country. 63And Isaac went out to meditate in the field at the eventide: and he lifted up his eyes, and saw, and, behold, the camels were coming. 64And Rebekah lifted up her eyes, and when she saw Isaac, she lighted off the camel. 65For she had said unto the servant, What man is this that walketh in the field to meet us? And the servant had said, It is my master: therefore she took a vail, and covered herself. 66And the servant told Isaac all things that he had done. 67And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah's tent, and took Rebekah, and she became his wife; and he loved her: and Isaac was comforted after his mother's death. (KJV)

meditate = suwach {soo'-akh}
= muse, commune, speak, complain;
It is in the Qal Stem (a simple or casual action-active voice) & the Imperfect mood which expresses an action, process, or condition which is incomplete; it adds color & movement to it.
The TWOT states: "The basic meaning of this verb seems to be 'rehearse,' 'repent,' or 'go over a matter in one's mind.' " It may be a silent reflection or an outward speaking; it may be to complain or speak disparagingly as well as silent reflections on God's great works. Isaac has lost his mother (Sarah) in death and he has no wife. He is lonely.

vail = tsa-'iyph {tsaw-eef'}
= from a word meaning to wrap over=shawl, veil.

covered = kacah {kaw-saw'}
= to hide, cover, conceal; Being in the Imperfect mood
= to do this to oneself.

loved = 'ahab {aw-hab'}
= human love for another, including family & sexual.

comforted = nacham {naw-kham'}
= (being in the Niphal stem)=to console oneself or to find ease for oneself. Isaac found relief from his pain in the loss of his mother, Sarah, plus he found comfort in his wife Rebekah.


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